Tantra + Psychology + Consent + Sexuality + Orgasm

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Yoni Massage

Yoni massage

What is it?

Yoni is Sanskrit for vulva; it is a vulva massage that includes full body stimulation, not just limited to the vulva. A tantric practice.

What is the goal?

It is a sensual vulva and internal (vaginal) massage performed inside and outside your vulva and other erogenous zones in your body, connecting your body and your senses to give you extreme pleasure with many orgasms.

What are its benefits?

• Increased sexual desire.

• Increased self-confidence.

• Increased self-esteem.

• Increased body awareness (especially if you come from trauma, stress, etc.)

• Releases tense muscles.

• Helps with period pain.

• Releases negative aura and emotions (pent up anxiety and sadness)

• Helps with healing from trauma.

• Stress relief.

How is it performed?

It is typically performed by tantra practitioners with mutual understanding of consent, boundaries, strict professionalism and ethics.

You.are.in.control

What are the techniques?

There are many, including inside and outside pleasure methods for the vulva and other erogenous zones in your body. Many just play in and around the vulva and anus, which I consider to be robbing the receiver of a great experience.

Is it different to a sex toy? Or a dildo?

Yes, 100% different. The sensations alone will be worth more than a shipload of sex toys vibrating at the same time.

Are they addictive?

Absolutely, yes. Especially if you are stressed, the relief is deeply desirable. Yoni massage is a full-body orgasmic spiritual experience, which often releases emotions in the form of crying.

Can you squirt from it?

Yes, very possible. But it's more about raging internal sexual orgasms than ejaculation. Squirting may not be possible for some; however, I have not yet seen anyone who wasn't able to after a few sessions.

More orgasms = More confidence

Have you ever spent time lying in bed enjoying the euphoric post-orgasmic bliss?

The sensational ripples throughout your body at the right places!

The journey to the release! OMG! Just at the perfect time!

The cascade of emotions flowing post-orgasm, the increased attachment to you and/or your partner!

Panting, sweating, trying to catch your breath!

A bit disappointed you were flying on sensational Cloud 9 and now you're back!

Soaking up all the build-up and the release emotions, realizing you can do it again and again and again!

Trying to ride the oversensitive wave, so you can go again!

Ever wondered why?

An orgasm feels SO DAMN GOOD, due to the release of following hormones:

Oxytocin - "the love hormone" Oxytocin surges during orgasm, promoting feelings of trust, emotional security, and connection

Dopamine - Linked to pleasure, reward, and motivation

Endorphins - Natural painkillers and mood enhancers, creating a sense of euphoria and well-being

Serotonin - Regulates mood and promotes feelings of calm and contentment

Prolactin - Inducing relaxation and a sense of satisfaction

Estrogen - Regular sexual activity, including orgasm, can support healthy estrogen levels

These hormones amplify confidence by enhancing body positivity, emotional resilience, and self-assurance. In some moments you will have a whole body orgasm, also known as a brain orgasm, which is a form of sexual energy release that is so profound and spiritual the energy travels throughout your spine stimulating all the chakras!

It will last quite a while!

Regularly orgasming (while being aware) builds self-confidence; it allows you to be aware of your body and its sensations. It helps the understanding of your pleasures and embrace your true desires.

Here are some facts! A 2023 study found that oxytocin release during sexual activity reduces social anxiety by approximately 20%, enhancing confidence in interpersonal interactions (Carter & Pfaus, 2023).

Giving yourself orgasms also trigger oxytocin, reinforcing self-love and comfort in one’s own body, which translates to greater poise in social and professional settings.

Women who regularly experience orgasms report a 25% increase in confidence in decision-making, attributed to dopamine’s role in reinforcing positive behaviors (Herbenick et al., 2024).

40% of women with chronic pain conditions, such as endometriosis, experience temporary relief post-orgasm due to endorphin release, which also reduces stress and boosts mood (Rowland & Kolba, 2022).

70% of women reported improved body image and confidence after regular sexual activity (Kleinplatz et al., 2023).

Women who frequently experience orgasms report a 20% improvement in emotional stability, linked to serotonin’s role in reducing anxiety and enhancing self-esteem (Meston & Trapnell, 2024).

70% of women who engage in sexual activity before bed experience better sleep quality due to prolactin’s calming effects (Walker et al., 2024).

Women who engage in frequent sexual activity maintain better vaginal health and lubrication due to estrogen’s role in tissue elasticity, leading to a 30% increase in sexual confidence (Basson & Smith, 2023).

Is orgasming THE SECRET to confidence?

The hormonal interplay of oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins, serotonin, prolactin, and estrogen during orgasm creates a powerful feedback loop that uplifts a woman’s confidence.

Reducing stress, Enhancing mood, Reinforcing self-worth, Countering societal pressures that often can undermine sense of self.

For the 10-15% of women who find orgasm challenging (Rowland & Kolba, 2023), the journey of exploration via Mindfulness, Communication, Tools, lubricants—still triggers hormonal benefits.

Embracing orgasm is an act of self-love, enabling anyone to reclaim their bodies and desires, and carry that empowerment throughout.

The G spot

The G-spot is a sensitive, spongy area of erectile tissue about 2–3 inches inside the vagina, along the front (anterior) wall, near the urethra. When stimulated (via pressure, stroking, or thrusting), it can swell and lead to intense arousal and a distinct type of G-spot orgasm—often deeper, more full-bodied, and sometimes accompanied by female ejaculation (squirting).

Not everyone feels it the same way, and it may require experimentation to locate and activate.

Guides on G-spot are everywhere !!! (yawns tantra king) Let's talk about a special spot

The A spot

The Greatest orgasm of all time

The GOAT A-spot Orgasm

What is it?

Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone, discovered in the '90s!

The epicenter of all orgasms, the buildup and release is extreme!

Located about two inches past the G spot, the A spot can provide ungodly orgasms for any female.

It is an erogenous zone, yay!

If you've never achieved orgasms from penetration, this is the one to try.

While it's easier to achieve A-spot orgasm via penetration (dildo or a penis) or by anal in many cases (yes, that's why you feel anal is so good, dear female reader)

You can also do this by hand.

Extreme trust, bonding, and a lot of foreplay are required to make this possible.

Expect a mess! And a lot of love afterwards.

How-To

• Set the mood (candles, etc.).

• Foreplay

• It is recommended to give her an initial orgasm just to set the mood

• Lube up

• Slide two fingers in, palms facing upward (middle and index fingers)

• Locate the G spot, then move further inside by one or two inches.

• You will know you have found the A-spot by an instant release of nectar when you touch it.

• It is located near the cervix on the upper wall of the vagina.

• It's about 4-5 inches inside. This is why bonding and foreplay is required.

• Side-to-side movements are recommended. Do not move too much!

• Explore and build pleasure! Slow movements!

• When you feel she is getting aroused, use a tongue or the other hand to stimulate the clitoris.

Orgasm Explosion!

Squirting/nectar release is extremely common.

Crying too?

Your hands will be wet.

A-spot orgasm can provide intense, body-shaking orgasms.

It is a bit of a tricky one to hit via hands, requiring a lot of experience.

But a memorable one—definitely the one where she will fall in love with you.